Shari Alyse posted an update 1 week, 1 day ago
I always thought I was wild. Spontaneous. I believed that I was truly a daring and free soul.
I mean, I took off half way around the world by myself to a country I didn’t speak the language and made it my home for a few months.
I hopped in my car and drove across the United States several times by myself.
I’ve jumped out of an airplane.
I moved to NYC and LA to become a famous star.
I did everything I thought was daring.
But I held my breath most of the way.
I researched endlessly where to go, what to do, what to say. My free as bird trip was very well planned.
My acting pursuits were half-ass.
I posted pics that were ‘just the right angle’ when I was very overweight.
I hid under hair.
I smiled to not upset people but I was hurting myself.
I pretended to be a vegetarian for almost a year and all I wanted was a Big Mac.
I did just enough to stay safe within the lines.
I played life safe.
My body reaped the effects.
Always on guard and high alert.
Always thinking 10 steps ahead.
Always thinking, planning and strategizing next moves.
Wild and spontaneous were romantic ideas and Hollywood fantasies that I gave myself and it couldn’t have been further from the truth.
I didn’t enjoy myself along the way because I was so busy creating a sense of (false) security for myself in everything and that’s f*ucking exhausting.
It takes too much work to plan every possible outcome and it’s just not possible.
As I got older, this exciting life I thought I was leading turned into anxiety and worry.
So much so that everything I was doing and experiencing I was barely enjoying it. I was so entrenched in doing it all ‘right’ and being ‘safe’ that it lost its joy.
If this year taught me anything it’s that I don’t want to spend one more moment playing it safe!
I don’t want to spend a second longer worrying about the outcome of anything!
This is why I’ve created my exclusive B.A.D.A.S.S. Women’s Inner Circle.
B.A.D.A.S.S Women’s Inner Circle is for women who are ready to throw caution to the wind!
It’s for women who are tired of showing up as the world expects them to and more importantly, tired of hiding from themselves.
B.A.D.A.S.S Women’s Inner Circle is about exploring your truth, discovering your edges and sticking your tippy toe right over that edge.
It’s about stepping into your power, and daring to explore and unearth your cracks and crevices.
It’s about unabashedly being you and unapologetically taking center stage in your own life.
B.A.D.A.S.S Women’s Inner Circle is about gathering with other wild women who are ready to own who they are and create a ruckus wherever they go!
B.A.D.A.S.S. is a Brave, Authentic, Daring, Amazing, Self-Confident, Superwoman.
And you’re ready to take your rightful place in this world.
It’s no longer an option to be who you’re not.
It’s your time!
I’m leading this B.A.D.A.S.S. revolution of women because it’s time for us to break free from those chains and self-imposed prison walls of what and who everyone needs us to be and it’s time for you to stand up and be YOU!
P.S. You don’t have to be ‘wild’, you just have to be you.
P.P.S. This is only open to 15 women so gather your heart of courage and reserve your spot now.
If you are done coloring within the lines, showing up as everyone else expects you too, playing it safe – then you want to join my B.A.D.A.S.S. Women’s Inner Circle!