As business owners and healers, we often stretch ourselves thin by taking on too much. Sometimes we say yes to opportunities without considering if they truly align with our values and vision. This can create inner tension over time.

Dwelling on past decisions that didn’t serve us won’t help – it only breeds more negative self-talk. The harder thing is to learn how to say no when our limits have been reached. This protects our energy and prevents burnout.

Most of us want success on some level. We aim to be the best at our craft, provide excellent service, or build a thriving business. But if our self-worth depends too much on external validation, we set ourselves up for insecurity.

Even the most confident among us have doubts. Public figures resort to cosmetic fixes to maintain their brand image. Insecurity is human – the key is not letting it drive our choices.

To make empowered decisions, reflect on your motivations. Are you saying yes to feel accepted, or because an opportunity genuinely calls to your highest purpose? Sometimes pleasing others comes at the cost of your wellbeing.

Get clear on your values and strengths by auditing your gifts, passions and non-negotiables. Your worth isn’t defined by what the outside world sees – it’s an internal experience.

When you appreciate yourself fully as you are, you can show up authentically and trust that the right clients will resonate with your message. Self-acceptance breeds self-assurance and compassion for others. You’ll attract those meant to support you on your journey.

Here are some things to consider:

►When you fully believe in and stand by your values and offers, you’ll communicate that confidence to potential clients. They’ll be drawn to work with someone so assured in their message.

►Self-acceptance allows you to clearly articulate what makes you and your business different without feeling insecure. Clients want to work with experts who know their niche and why they’re the best fit.

►It helps you identify and only pursue the clients that truly match your ideal client avatar. You don’t waste time pitching to the wrong audiences just to get business.

►By feeling comfortable in your own skin, you can build genuine connections during consultations instead of coming across salesy or trying too hard to please. People pick up on authenticity.

►Your marketing will reflect the uniqueness of who you are instead of what you think clients want to hear. This attracts clients looking for someone real versus a shape-shifter.

►Confidence in your value frees you up to set appropriate prices/packages. You no longer lowball just to keep busy, which draws higher quality clients.

Self-acceptance shows in your online presence as well. People showing up and feeling they can trust you are a key sign you’re unconsciously putting out the right vibes.

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